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Mike Benedek on Building Change in Caserío Sector Los Castro

(PHOTO: Team Dayā’s Mike “the Bricklayer” Benedek takes five in front of bags of cement.)

My trip to Guatemala with Team Dayā began some years ago when I first met Jay Sears at an IAB Leadership Summit cocktail party in Palm Springs, California. I joined Team Dayā during covid-19 with the goal of raising $10,000 towards a Senegal school build and am proud to have raised over $31,000 to date thanks to generous donations from old friends, new friends, family, and from my own company Datonics’ ad-tech giveback initiative with agencies and brands.

I describe my motivation for joining, my personal connection to education, and my experience on that April 2022 Senegal school build in a past post. Needless to say I was hooked, and I remain hooked. I traveled to Senegal to give of myself but received so much more back in return – and Guatemala was no different!

The flight to Guatemala City from JFK was scheduled for 4.5 hours and ended up taking 12+ hours due to weather delays. Upon landing, I made my way to the colonial city of Antigua (our meeting place for the 5-hour drive to the village) and enjoyed a short restorative hike and a dinner with our local school building partners.  

The following morning Jay Sears & Jordan Mitchell (see Jordan’s account) arrived and we were off to the races – learning about the village we would be building in, the history and culture of Guatemala (including some language training in Spanish as well as the Mayan language Quiché). We learned the village had no road or electricity as recently as 10 years ago and the current K-6 school was a wood board hut with a dirt floor and a single teacher.

The drive from Antigua to the remote mountain village took five hours over winding mountain roads with scenes of poverty interspersed with scenic valleys, hills and mountain tops. After a quick lunch (and last exposure to a flush toilet for five days) we met up with the translator who would be joining us and drove the final 45 minutes to the village. We arrived at an experience that can only be truly conceptualized if you were there.

The entire village came out to meet with us – children of all ages, women dressed in beautiful colorful attire with babies on their backs and men of all ages. There was a lot of music – the theme of this school building in Guatemala for me was the music and the bonds that music makes possible.  

Music played, the children danced, welcome speeches were made, and we became part of their family. We signed a covenant with the villagers (many of them signed with their fingerprints since they never learned to write) formalizing their commitment to complete the school and keep it accessible for all boys and girls. Later on, we even imprinted our handprints into bricks that were included in the school building foundation.

The family aspect of this experience cannot be overstated – Jay, Jordan, and I were placed with a host family. Mayk (pronounced “Mike”), Rosa and Mayk’s sister Juana and their daughters gave us a room in their house and made us feel at home, welcoming us like they knew us forever.

We set up our cots and spent some quality time with our hosts playing cards and Jenga. We were also entertained by the many animals that wandered around their yard and into our room – dogs, cats, chicken, ducks and more.

After dinner our family would start a small campfire and we all sat around and exchanged stories (using Google Translate), laughed and listened to music. This formula for a good time was repeated every night and we looked forward to it!

Mornings were spent on the worksite doing the manual labor required to build the school, hand-in-hand with the local villagers — men, women, and even some children who loaded rocks into wheelbarrows. The work was challenging but felt easier than in Senegal (where the temperature was over 100 degrees Fahrenheit) since I knew what to expect.

I rotated mostly between loading rocks into wheelbarrows, digging holes that became the foundation for the school, mixing cement (that was hard!) and using a heavy tamper device to level the ground so it would be uniform. 

We used our break time to visit the current simple school house and meet the children, listening to their stories, their plans and how excited they were about the school we were all building together. During the afternoons we spent time with the local villagers doing varied activities to build bonds such as a hike to the local cemetery through a mountain trail and a lesson on tortilla making (and eating!).

As it is sometimes true that all good things must come to an end, it was soon time to say goodbye and the village organized an elaborate ceremony including many dances, music, speeches, and multiple pinatas with candy for the children. We gave speeches thanking the villagers for their partnership and explaining that while only three of us were in the community, we represented hundreds of generous donors who made the school a reality.

A highlight of the closing ceremony was an element we added to it – since our host was a fan of the band Santana and so were we, and since the children invited us to dance with them during their traditional dance, at the conclusion of our speeches we invited all of the children to join us in a village-wide conga line and we all danced together to Santana.

As I mentioned before, I came to give and represent our donors who have given generously, but I received so much in return. Senegal and Guatemala are now behind me, but the schools we built in both places will serve generations and the experiences will remain forever etched in my memory.

Next stop for me with Team Dayā – Malawi in 75 days! I can’t wait to get there and start building! Thanks to all the donors for making this miracle possible and to Jay for your inspiring vision and leadership!

Let’s Go Team Daya!

Michael “The Bricklayer” Benedek on Building (hopefully) the First of Many Schools

by Team Dayā Member Michael Benedek

The flight to Senegal for a Team Dayā school build with Jay Sears & Hasan Arik was a short flight at the end of a long journey that began years ago when I read about Jay Sears’ vision to give back and launch a charity— Team Dayā–backed by corporate and individual donors from the adtech / martech world to build schools in the developing world.

It Seemed Far Fetched

The vision spoke to me at the time but it seemed so theoretical and far-fetched—- how would I and others like me do something like that?  I was focused elsewhere–my work at Datonics, my family, my co-op board, and my involvement as a co-sponsor (the less important one) in launching a charter school in Manhattan–a well-intentioned project that ended up getting rejected by the State of NY’s bureaucratic, charter-granting body despite numerous meetings with state and local representatives, community board meetings, and more.

Education & My Family

The importance of equal access to education has always been top of mind for me. My grandparents, who had their later school-age years stolen from them, never attended college but made up for it with street smarts and ensured that their children, who grew up in Canada, went to college.

Mike talks about the purpose and meaning of the school build.

My father arrived in Canada as a teenager from Romania, speaking neither English nor French, but graduated with a PhD in engineering from McGill University about 10 years later.  My mother studied French in college & worked as a teacher in her early years; my wife taught in progressive schools in New York City & now runs a middle school in Manhattan; and my own company Datonics has played a leadership role with a charity called Futures and Options for many years–providing gifted and talented high school students from historically underrepresented communities with the opportunity to intern with and work for technology / financial services companies in New York City–opening students’ eyes to opportunities they might not have been aware of.  Education is and always will be part of my DNA.

Team Dayā 

When I read Jordan Mitchell’s heartwarming post about Team Dayā’s Nepal school build  and his sentiment that “I’m not sure I will ever find the words to describe the experience (and I tear up when I try), but I hope that everyone I know has a similar experience at some point in their lives ”, I knew this was something I had to do.

LUMA Meeting

Brickmaking with The Bricklayer

A bit before COVID-19 hit, I saw that Luma Partners was hosting a Team Dayā info session in New York led by Jay Sears.  I put that in my calendar, but work got in the way and I did not attend.  But I remembered meeting Jay at IAB Leadership Summit in Palm Springs a couple years prior and getting a great vibe, so I gave him a call and gave him my best pitch about why he should accept me as part of his team and let me get involved. 

Thankfully, he accepted me, telling me “Welcome aboard— as soon as you raise $10,000 you can go on a school build.”  And off to the races I went, during COVID-19, benefiting from generous corporate/personal donations from old friends, new friends, family, and from Datonics’ own adtech giveback initiative with agencies and brands that helped me reach our goal–but how were we going to build a school during COVID-19 in developing countries where most are unvaccinated?  The school build was inching closer but still seemed so far away!

Senegal Quick

In January 2022 I get a call from Jay–“Mike, our school building partner, buildOn, told me we may be able to build a school in Senegal starting in mid-March–are you in?  I want to get this done ASAP to build momentum and make up for lost time due to COVID-19–so that we can then do the next builds in Malawi & Guatemala.”  This is a man with a vision–he was planning for Senegal to get done as a path to the next two!  I loved it and said, “Let’s do it!”.

Only two months later, after countless vaccinations, multiple COVID tests & the promise of 2-3 tests more before we arrived to & during our time in the village–we met at JFK on a Friday night for our flight to Dakar.

Senegal Welcome

All Team Dayā members are required to dance. No experience is necesary.

Three days later, after receiving our names in Wolof (mine was “DIEN GAI”) along with valuable language/cultural instruction, we arrived in the community of Nguiddine Keur Sara in the Fatick region of Senegal accompanied by two translators, and were met by galloping horses, pick-up trucks with cheering children, and a parade of dancing women and children. There were drums & local dance moves, and a ceremony in honor of the school groundbreaking. The whole community (I would estimate 200+ adults, with 150+ children were at this celebration) then signed a covenant to build the school with us, and we delivered speeches of thanks in response to their speeches of welcome and thanks, putting the first shovels in alongside the Village chief, village imam, and women leaders. 

Team Dayā being greeted as we enter the village for the first time.

Our Days in Nguiddine Keur Sara Village

Over the rest of the week, we connected deeply with members of the community–a community without electricity or running water. We slept on the floor in a grain shed adjacent to their homes under a mosquito net (normally we would have stayed in their homes but to protect them from COVID-19, we stayed in the grain shed), walked through their fields, played soccer with their children (and I even taught them how to play some card games), danced to Senegalese music, and worked hand in hand with them, day in and day out, for five hours per day in 109 degree heat.

Days started with stretching and that led to brick-making, cement mixing, digging the foundations of the school and the latrines, and more. Like Jordan experienced in Nepal, we wore work gloves and earned blisters, while the community worked with their bare hands (with no blisters)!

Each afternoon we spent on cultural exchanges–meeting the Village Chief and elders, meeting the representatives of the women, meeting the principal & teachers, learning how to prepare millet, learning how to build a chicken coop, tame a bull, and just hanging out with the kids and their animals–donkeys, sheep, chickens, roosters.

What’s Next

My takeaways were like what Jordan experienced in Nepal. First, WOMEN RULE!!!!–the Senegalese women, dressed to kill, often with babies hanging from their arms (and breasts), outworked the men–mixing and carrying cement, rallying the men to work longer and harder, and dancing at the work site.   

The second key takeaway was–something that should be obvious to all–that money and material things do not bring happiness (though your donations do help build a school!). This community had very few things, yet they had everything they needed and were very happy. The only thing they lacked easy access to was “education”–with their kids walking 5 miles to school in some cases, and in other cases having classes in a thatched hut.

When it was time to say our goodbyes, the whole community again came together to dance and sing, and we all shed many tears that will bind us together forever. The world is a small place and while I arrived to give, I received far more in return–happiness and fulfillment that cannot be described.  

I pray that with the support of Team Dayā and our generous donors–you and others like you–Senegal was only my first school–Malawi, Nicaragua and Guatemala here we come. I can’t wait to get started with your help!

Mike’s remarks at our closing ceremony in Nguiddine Keur Sara